Advice needed.

[Knockout]

Personally I'd ignore it.

[Buhawi]

Originally Posted by Team Jetfire

Well, Like I said, I wanted to see how she turned out... My fault for searching her out I suppose. But it's human to be curious. Unfortunately, my curiosity has caused this predicament.

For the record, she also split up with me and even though we were a far way from having a serious relationship, I would like to show her that I turned out to be alright.

And by all accounts, she is attractive. I'm not concerned about that though. I more concerned about being called out for creeping on her...

So why are you uncomfortable about it?

Called out for creeping? By her or your boss lady?

Add her if there's no uncomfortable feelings. Yeah, it's more like curiousity rather than anything else.

Originally Posted by Dark Rage

Maybe next time, creep via incognito mode/without logging into LinkedIn.

You should have thought of this before. LOL

[Team Jetfire]

Good question. I'm probably overthinking everything, as usual.

I'll probably do 'a' and just go with the flow.

[Buhawi]

TFW says D.

edit: Good thing this is cybertron.ca

[Dark Rage]

Originally Posted by Team Jetfire

...So, I'm at a loss as to how to move forward. do I:
A) Accept her connection request and do what everyone else does on LinkedIn does; absolutely nothing?
B) Accept her connection request and message her with the obligatory "hey, how are you? What you been up too since High School?"
C) Ignore the request.
D) Stick it in the pooper.
...

Originally Posted by Buhawi

TFW says D.

edit: Good thing this is cybertron.ca

You can't assume Team Jetfire's ex is into that kinda thing.

[Buhawi]

A will lead to B, eventually and D is always an option. Well, it is on this list.

[MULTIPLEX]

LOL at some of the responses

Just ignore it. Don't be bothered. As if she didn't "creep" you already too. What's in the past should kept in the past.

[CobraCommander]

I guess it depends on what you value more, your marriage or your curiosity? The later could lead to temptation.

[Team Jetfire]

True enough but I'm not really worried about temptation. Granted, I am one hot piece of ass, but it would be a stretch to assume that she's anymore then just curious as to what I'm up to now.

[Buhawi]

I'm curious to see how this ended.

"Creeped" on one of the exs. She looked thin in her wedding dress. 2 years later, she got huge. No kids.


Married a marine. Scared to add. LOL