thanks for the info guys !
actually after quite a bit of searching i,ve found an alternative:
http://www.shipito.com/
you choose the carrier that you want to use and they have low rates for handling... will try it and i,ll let you guys know how good the service is, if you guys ever require something like this in the future
the reason is that i,ve won in the big red contest (transformers) and i won ! but the problem is that they need an adress in the states...