Helllllllllllllp! Hide or confess??

[Spacemonkey]

My girlfriend just don't want i expose my tf everywhere in the apartment. We have a room used for storage actually and it's where hi expose themand sometimes one or two on my desk in the room used as office. She know also, when i go around in the stores without particular reason, it's to look for tf.

[Team Jetfire]

Do not hide them, My wife hates it when I hide crap and I hate when she hids stuff on me.

Yes you may have went overboard, but if he loves you he will understand.

[Dark Rage]

Cut off some of the toylines you're collecting. Do you really need to buy each toy of every series?

Especially with the ones that you're disappointed or don't like whe you first open/transform them.

Although I'm guilty myself, but I just shop on forums and e-stores.

I'd rather see a girl splurging on clothing or makeup, as long as it's anything to make them look sexier.

...In which a nude girl holding a transformer doesn't really count.

[darthrage]

i find something wrong if your boyfriend doesn't like TFs or does not support your hobby

So there is no need to hide or confess

Just have them in full visible sight and then don't mention them until he brings it up. And then when he sees it, just confidently say that you bought them (not all at once but over the course of time)

[mitchmurphy]

dark rage has a good point, and is something that im gradually doing, but, i no it is really hard (stop buying cds,games,dvds,shoes)

just focus on a few things.


every couple/family atleast once in a while has to sneak something in becuase they will get a lecture, me myself if i go nuts hide them in my closet for a while until i feel its safe to slowly gradually open the ones i want.

sneeking in toys that you do not plan to open is alot more tricky and is the same situation that i myself am in right now.(my closet is stacked to the brim of collectables im not going to open!)

if you get caught though i doesnt matter if its 4 or 14 either way its a lecture (trust me i get them every time im at the mall)

[lars573]

Confess. But try and look sheepish about when you do it. It works for my sister when she tells her fiance she bought another purse. Which she has like 30 of.

[jessikaowl]

Originally Posted by dark_rage

I'd rather see a girl splurging on clothing or makeup, as long as it's anything to make them look sexier.
...In which a nude girl holding a transformer doesn't really count.

I'm sexy enough as it is......

I think I'll take in half of them or something. The others slowly.

And he does support it and like TF, I got him the ti SS a while ago and every few days he's in another mode!

[Vagabond Elf]

My wife will occasionally roll her eyes at the things I buy, and if I put it on my credit card she'll get miffed (with cause, credit cards are not money and when we moved in together I had $12,000 owing on mine...) But as long as it's money I actually have, and the bills are all paid, I can spend it however I like - Transformers, swords, strippers, whatever.

But it's never a good idea to conceal things from your SO. Sooner or later he'll find out, and that can start the slippery slope of "what else isn't she telling me." So my advice (bearing in mind I don't know either of you) is don't flaunt them, but don't hide them. Don't make a big deal out of it, act like everything's normal, and it probably will be.

[Paradigm-Shift Prime]

Originally Posted by Benzo

bring them in and show him your haul!! and tell him there will be more in the future. until you're married it's "my money, my toys!"

hehe, or just say you're investing in toys for future kids now because when kids rolls along all the money will be going towards diapers and strollers and you won't be able to afford any for them.

[CobraCommander]

Don't hide them show them off with pride, besides you wouldn't want your bf to hide stuff from you, would you? Lead by example

If all else fails just ask him would you rather I buy tf's or a boat load of shoes