A VERY SAD DAY. :(
 

Don't know if i should post this here or if anyone but the people that know me on here will care. but i needed to talk to people.

last night after being at the hospital for over 14 hours.

my wife misscarried. :(
she was 3 months along. and i know there really isn't a safe point.

this would have been our first child and we were both really excited.

we are trying to look at this as nature (or god whichever way you think) was letting us know that this baby wasnt healthy so it aborted.

The doc told us that more then not a pregnancy will abort.

i know many of you on here have children.
anyone else have any kind of story to help me better understand or feel somewhat better.

im trying to stay happy but right now it just feels like my world shattered.

We are going to keep trying of course and hopefully it won't take too long and next time the baby will be healthy.

If i shouldnt post this here please remove it. but i felt i needed to get it out and maybe get some stories or feedback or something. i really don't know.

Re: A VERY SAD DAY. :(
 

Condolences.

Re: A VERY SAD DAY. :(
 

sorry about wat happened! :(

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So sorry man.

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Sorry to hear that.Now I dont know you from Adam,but what the dr said is true. It is something that happens more often than not.It is a hard to deal with non the less.All I can say is if you two want a baby,keep trying and dont let this discourage you.It has happened to my wife and I,but we have gotten through it. Again sorry about your loss and keep hope.

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Here is a little personal story of my own that might help you.

My mother had a lot of problems having kids, she miscarried over 2 times, she thought all hope was lost.

Then she miscarried again..... but when she went to the doctor, it was confirmed that there was TWO babies and only one miscarried..... I was the survivor.

and I am as healthy and athletic as they come.

After I was born my mom had my sister who is also healthy and happy as they come.

In the end, have no worries, it's not some kind of deep meaning, things like this happen.

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So sorry to that. There have been a few miscarriages in my family, but it all worked out the second time around for them.

Good luck to you and your wife.

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I'll be honest, I don't know you at all, and never read any of your posts that I can think of... but something like this should never happen to anyone. My condolences to you and your wive and both your families, I wish you all the best in a (hopefully) another attempt.
God be with you.

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Shit deal. Two of my aunts have had it happen.

Best of luck next time.

Re: A VERY SAD DAY. :(
 

I'm sorry to hear that. I hope the future proves brighter.