I'm not sure my man. I don't know exactly what it is you "did" to be honest with you. I don't know that community to be honest with you.
So my suggestion to you would be, try something new. Check out Seibertron. I listen to their podcast, as well as all the major sites, and while I am not on their forum if you're looking for a very active one this is probably it. They have over 60,000 registered members (probably not all active) but the most ever online was 4500 this past June. Not bad! Give 'em a try, and I don't think anyone should have to cover up who they are or whatever they may be going through to be part of a community. That's not community. Please stick around here tho. Your questions liven things up.
Seibertron
Also, I saw a cool custom and thought of you earlier. I was actually gonna message you when I saw this. Enjoy!
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